My first up-close and personal observation of homeschooling — where a child was not enrolled in traditional schooling and the learning experience was solely curated by the parent– was when my mother decided to homeschool my brother who was in middle school. This was in the mid-1990’s. He had been in a Montessori magnet program in his Maryland school since all K-6 grade. After 6th grade, she had put him in a private Montessori school, but, was disappointed by some of the racist antics she observed by the director of the school and my brother’s teacher and pulled him out. She knew that middle school was a tricky time for children—both boys and girls—and decided to spend his 8th grade year as his teacher. Please note, I am the oldest of five children, all girls and one boy. My mother did not have a sense of urgency in choosing homeschooling for the rest of us as she did my brother. And, it makes sense.
In general, public schools are less forgiving of the behaviors displayed by boys of color as they are of white children and girls. A new study found that Black boys and students with disabilities are the most vulnerable to punitive discipline tactics within public schools. In my work as a scholar of trends in African American homeschooling patterns, I am consistently finding literature that indicates that Black families are choosing to homeschool because of environmental factors that range from punitive discipline to perceived violence and generally unsafe environments. And, so, when moving your child from a perceived unsafe environment, you naturally want to find and create a safe space for your child to learn. With that mindset, you naturally might want to consider a homeschool cooperative as a foundational aspect of your homeschooling journey. This blog will explore what a co-op experience might look like and how to choose wisely.
What is a homeschool co-op?
A co-op is usually a group where the children and parents are both integral parts of the learning environment. Co-ops are generally started by a homeschooling parent or a group of homeschooling parents who decide to offer courses for their children to take together. Most co-ops hire outside contractors to teach the course and combine resources to pay the instructor. Some co-ops have the parents teach a course and waive costs if each parent is teaching a course. Some co-ops have membership fees in addition to the fees for the courses. Some don’t. A few co-ops are incorporated as nonprofits and receive grant funding that allows the courses to be free of charge to participants.
Some co-ops specialize in a discipline or academic focus like the Arts or STEM, while some co-ops specialize in a mindset such as Pan-African thought, Christianity, or College Prep. Some co-ops are only for a certain age group. Overall, co-ops are opportunities to meet other homeschooling families, provide your children with an opportunity to engage in socializing with other children their age and an opportunity for them to learn subjects you may not be equipped to teach them.
Learn what the mission of the homeschool co-op is and determine if it is compatible with your own
I have been part of co-ops that I learned were not aligned with my own mission statement despite the attraction of the title or academic focus. It can be discouraging at first, but, as you get better in understanding what your mission is as a home educator, you will get more discerning in what activities and groups you engage your child in. Learn what their mission statements are before settling solely on their title or age focus. I wrote an earlier blog post about writing mission statements.
Sometimes, you really don’t know if a co-op is compatible with your homeschooling goals until your child is already enrolled and engaged in co-op courses or activities. I realized that my personal learning experiences and my daughter’s personality and learning needs required a certain co-op experience. When I was a child, from an early age, my mother educated me at home me even though I attended public school. So, in a sense, she was homeschooling me. What that means is that she assigned me readings and engaged in cultural teachings in addition to the work I was responsible for in school. Her teachings focused on the global history of people of the African diaspora. By second grade, she had gotten a job at a Pan-Afrikan independent school as a pre-school teacher and was able to enroll me and my sister. She worked there for only two years before we moved to another city and enrolled again in public school. But, the foundation was already set for me. I had developed a lens in which I viewed the world, and it was from a perspective that was global, concerned about justice and equity and centered the experiences of people of the African diaspora.
As an adult, that is how I view the world around me and determine if a place is a fit for me. This is what we do as adults. Our experiences shape our perspectives. Yet, as a parent, it is not so cut and dry when making the determination on what is a fit for our children. Our children are individuals with unique experiences, needs and abilities. So, when considering a homeschooling co-op, you have to realize what is necessary for both you and your child and determine if the co-op meets those needs.
Assess if being part of a homeschool co-op adds or detracts from your child’s homeschool experience.
While, my daughter is an older homeschooling student now, I had to make these decisions when she was younger regarding whether a co-op was a fit or not. We had a lot of hit and misses. We tried co-ops that had certain academic focuses and found that the courses modeled a school environment that did not foster inquiry and synthesis and were flat out boring. We tried co-ops that had rigorous schedules that did not allow for my daughter and I to take our own field trips or engage in other activities which clashed with our mission. By the time she was in what would be her sixth grade year, we found a groove where we were doing mostly field trips and learning subjects at home taught by me or local courses at our local parks and recreation centers. When we attended co-op activities, it was usually for day trips or a course here and there. Once, I even taught for a co-op to give her an opportunity to engage with other kids for a bit before we went back to our preferred groove of intermittent co-op involvement.
Recently, I had to make a vital decision to allow my daughter to drop out of an experience she was part of with a homeschool co-op group. While the experience looked excellent on paper for a college application, my daughter was miserable participating in the experience and begged me each day if she could leave. She did not like being one of only three students over the age of 15 and after being exposed to college courses and a year of more self-directed study, she felt stifled. I had noticed she did not speak up or engage with the group and looked bored during most activities except for working with the writing coach. I let her drop out.
Less than a day later, she immediately latched on to a youth employment opportunity with our county that starts soon that will allow her to earn money, learn about something she is passionate about—horticulture—and gain skills that are transferrable to her end goal of having professional experience in horticulture and possibly majoring or minoring in it for college. Although, her first loves are writing and music production, she found something else that excited her and was aligned with our homeschool mission statement.
In closing, finding a homeschool co-op fit can be a rewarding fit. Keep in mind that nothing has to be permanent on your homeschooling journey. Your goal is to optimize your child’s unique learning experiences. Stay encouraged that you know what is best for your family’s homeschool journey and never be afraid to change course if necessary.
Khadijah Z. Ali-Coleman is a homeschooling mother, a multi-media strategist and professional creative who has built an expansive interdisciplinary career as a professional in higher education, media, student development and the arts. You can join her mailing list and register for her courses for homeschooling families at StudentMediaOnline.com.
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